so I am new to this I have a ST-LINK/v2 can any one tell me where the pins are for these 4 1 RST 2 GND 3 SWIM 4 VCC 3.3v

[Lchal.1]

which processor are you using . It differs from one processor to another processor.

[PLont.1]

What do you mean I have a Dell laptop with windows 10​