It's all good, we're all here to help each other and put a smile on each other's faces.
However, it's a bit difficult to assess datasheets and figures from them if one don't know which datasheet is currently in front of you. So it would be helpful for a technical discussion if you include the link to the datasheet here (mark the text, e.g. the partnumber, and insert the URL with the link icon below, like I did for the following application note).
BTW: on our website you will find the AN5114 discussing the control of a Triac with a phototriac en détail, which might be helpful for you.
Good luck!
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/Peter
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