Well, the Absolute Maximum Ratings are the values at which the respective component survives; if they are exceeded, it must be considered destroyed.
Yes, the ST3232EBTR can directly replace the ST202EBTR, only the values of the charge pump capacitors might have to be adjusted according to the respective voltage range (see data sheet, table 9).
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/Peter
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